Pentecost 15, 2017
Matthew 18:21-35 & Genesis 50:15-21
“Have you buried the hatchet...with the handle up?”
Grace, mercy, and peace be to you from God our Father and from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Our Gospel lesson today speaks of something that is very hard to do…forgiving those who have sinned against us. That means forgiving not only those we barely know...but those we love who sin against us. And that's not easy. In fact, in The Image of Joy, Jeanette Lockerbie tells about overhearing a Christian say about a fellow believer, "I've buried the hatchet-but I've left the handle sticking up." Is that how we think of forgiveness? Thank God that He doesn't bury the hatchet with the handle sticking up!
C. S. Lewis talks about forgiving in this way: “Everyone says that forgiveness is a lovely idea until he has something to forgive.” Forgiveness is great when you are being forgiven…but doing the forgiving is not quite as easy. Sometimes we start to rationalize about forgiveness. Some thoughts that arise are: “If I had truly forgiven this person why do I still feel this way towards them?” We often think: “You can't truly forgive someone who doesn't ask for forgiveness.” or “We shouldn't forgive people who break God's law, that is condoning sin.” and “Forgiving people shows weakness of character and a subservient need to be accepted.”
Even as Peter asked “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?” (Matthew 18:21) it seems that we ask our Lord “do we really need to forgive someone at all?” Yet our Lord told Peter and continues to tell us this day “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” (Matthew 18:22) Obviously we need to forgive others that sin against us…but why? Why should we forgive people that hurt us on purpose? Why should we forgive people that lie, steal, kill, murder, cheat, abuse, and do so many other unthinkable things?
Our Lord puts it this way: "Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. "The servant fell on his knees before him. 'Be patient with me,' he begged, 'and I will pay back everything.' The servant's master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. "But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him. 'Pay back what you owe me!' he demanded. "His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, 'Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.' "But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened. "Then the master called the servant in. 'You wicked servant,' he said, 'I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn't you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?' In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. "This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart." (Matthew 18:23-35)
We are to forgive others as we have been forgiven. We think of sins in varying degrees. It is bad to lie and steal but it is worse to murder and rape. In the eyes of God all sins are equal in that they each condemn us to eternal damnation. All sins corrupt equally. All sins lead to hell equally. All sins are the cause of Jesus’ death on the cross. Jesus died for ALL sins…not just the really bad ones. Jesus took ALL sins upon himself…not just the lesser ones. God offers forgiveness to all people no matter what their sin may be.
Over the past twelve years as Pastor; it’s hard to believe it’s been that long, I have heard many reasons why people don’t come back to church. Very often it deals with a problem of forgiveness. I have heard people say that they wouldn’t come back to Church because they thought others held a grudge against them. On the other hand I have heard someone tell me that they wouldn’t come back to Church because of what a relative did…over forty years ago. Or someone that was offended by what the Pastor said…over thirty years ago. Where is forgiveness?
The fact is Jesus died for all people…for family members that hurt others feelings or Pastors that offend. Jesus died for all people…even for the very worst of society. Jesus died for Adolph Hitler, Ossama Bin Laden, John Wayne Gacy, Saul and any other notorious criminal you can think of. Understand this: Jesus died for all people…but not all people will be saved. Only those that believe on the Lord Jesus Christ will be saved. Yet if any of those criminals would repent…we are to forgive. It was Saul who we know as Saint Paul that did ask and receive forgiveness for his sins of persecuting and murdering the first Christians. It is up to the courts to judge and give punishment not the Church.
We cannot judge a person’s heart. We cannot discern if someone has faith…that is God’s judgment alone. Forgiveness doesn’t mean we accept sin. Forgiveness doesn’t mean we ignore accountability. Forgiveness is for those that repent of their sins. When someone repents we are not only to forgive but to remember their sins no more and to never bring them up again. We are called as Christians to forgive others…not decide if they are to be saved. We pray every Sunday, and many other days, in the Lord’s Prayer to “forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” There is no limit to forgiveness!
There is much joy in forgiving and being forgiven. There is joy knowing that God “remembers our sins no more.” (Isaiah 43:25) “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:7-9)
Forgive as you have been forgiven. Forgiveness binds us together as Christians like nothing else…it makes our relationships stronger. “Chief of sinners though I be, Jesus shed His blood for me; Died that I might live on high, Lived that I might never die. As the branch is to the vine, I am His, and He is mine.” No matter what you may have done you are always welcome in this place; for in this place Jesus offers forgiveness and remembers your sins no more. Amen.
Now may the peace of God which passes all human understanding keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior. Amen.
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